The Best Men on Sex and the City (the main four did not end up with) * I HATE AIDAN *

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Dec 29, 2023

I am a huge Sex and the City fan. So much so, I named my site "The Hot Child in the City" after the song by Nick Gilder, which I first heard in Season 3, Episode 15. So, here's comes my list of my favorite men the main four did not end up with.

16. Sean

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If Carrie was so uncomfortable with him being bisexual then she should have stopped seeing him. Instead she drags him along, sleeps with him and ghosts him. He was cute, respectful and didn’t deserve that.

15. Dr. Robert Leeds

Although he didn’t take the breakup well at all, he was amazing to Miranda whilst in the relationship. He just wasn’t her person. So can I date him?

14. James

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Although Samantha had some problems with him in the bedroom, and another bad breakup, he was such a sweetheart.

13. Joe - The New Yankee

He’d be a perfect boyfriend for someone other than Carrie who was just using him to make Big jealous.

12. Ray King

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Great sex. Great job. Carrie couldn’t deal with his ADD (that she, a licensed doctor, diagnosed him with smh). She’s trash.

11. The Lonely Irish Doorman

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A king!

10. Luke Gilmore - The Farmer

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POV you rent a country cabin for the weekend, look out the window and see this, what do you do?

9. Chivon

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This whole episode was a mess. Chivon was a great man.

Check out this Vanity Fair interview with actress Sundra Oakley who played Chivon's sister Adeena:

8. John - The Fuck Buddy

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Another relationship Carrie "fucked" up. It’s okay to have a fuck buddy, Carrie. You don’t have to date him. It would be one thing if she was starting to fall for him and had an adult conversation about it, but no. Carrie just bombards him with an awful dinner date because she has to have a boyfriend at all times.

I don't care what anyone says. He will always be Dennis Duffy to me:

7. Walker Lewis

Photo from https://www.thecut.com/2018/06/all-94-sex-and-the-city-flings-ranked.html

Why couldn’t they go back to his hotel and hook up instead of Miranda’s? He said he wasn’t a baby person. Miranda didn’t want to date him, just sleep with him. Whatever.

6. Ben

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Great job. Respectful. Kind. So cute. AND wore glasses! Carrie fumbled the bag on this one by rummaging through his belongings. Fine, Ben’s available to date me!